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I understand that you relate to being androgynous.
That’s a good default setting for anyone still exploring themselves and their life direction.
Androgyny works in its own right as an image and identity, not just as a halfway house toward something more full-femme.
So that comes with a lot of built-in leeways, regarding your main query.
As regards to others’ perceptions, well that’s somewhat uncontrollable
. Whatever anyone makes of anyone else, it is in the mind of the beholder.
Personally,
to bore you about myself,